Firehouse Tango Celebrates Rose and Estelle next Thursday, January 22

Published: Fri, 01/16/15

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January 15, 2015 Newsletter
Tributes to Joe
Here are a few of the many wonderful messages I received about Joe


From Steve Turi

I was once walking across the floor at Firehouse when Joe said to me, "Heeyyy, Groovy Kicks man!"It took me a beat before I realized he was referring to my shoes; a pair of the really nice ones you guysbrought back from BsAs.Thanks to you and Joe I now have a truly groovy set of kicks!I can only hope that some of Joe's cool will infuse it's way up my soles into my soul.Con mucho gracias y mucho amor,Your Esteban

From Terri Lopez

My Dear Friend:  My heart aches with you, we are so sorry for your loss.  He was such a great friend to me and mine and will be sorely missed. MR. D.  Rest in Peace, you are with the Lord.  I also extend my deepest sympathy to Marc, David, Janice and rest of the family.  Love Terri & Tony


From Rose Whitehill

Our dear Joe has not really left us -  he is in our hearts always.  What a gentle, unique man - You both have been in my prayers constantly, 
I love you very much, and you have a huge number of people who feel the same,  I am always here for you,.
Rose

 From Rich Ariza

Dear Sue,

                I am so sorry to hear of Joe's passing.  He was a very nice man and you know that he inspired me to DJ and host a milonga.  You've heard me say publicly that Maura and I wanted to be the 'friendliest milonga on that side of the Hudson'.  I DJ'ed at Triangulo last night and ended the milonga with Raul Parrantella's version of La Cumparsita as I always do.  That was and always will be my 'tipping my hat' to Joe.  May he rest in peace.

Love,
 Rich


From Sheila Geisler
Sue,

Joe had peace with God, friends and family his whole life. He brought that peace to all around him. He made us feel life and the pleasures you can get from simple things.He loved his science, his fishing and hunting, his music and photography, he loved his dance and his gardening. We always felt the pride he had in his boys. Mostly we felt the love he had for you.He was truly a Renaissance man, he will be missed.Our love, Sheila


From Frances Gillespie

Dear Sue,

You have so much courage and are so brave to continue with the Milongas and the visits to Buenos Aires.

My thoughts are with you and I so enjoy reading your news letters.
I will miss Joe very much. He had so much class and a wonderful cheerful personality and he still does as his spirit lives on.

I will be going for spinal surgery in February and may not be dancing for several months.

It will be a 6 hour operation for severe Stenosis.

May God bless us and keep us for what ever we face.

You Friend, Frances

From Ferd Ritz

Hi Sue,
     That was a nice tribute to Joe, last night.  I'll think of Joe whenever I wear his shoes; and I hope to make them dance as well, on me, as they did on him, someday.
Thanks,
Ferdy

From Linda Gilberg

Dear Sue, I love this beautiful newsletter you sent.  It brought tears to my eyes.  I am so sorry to hear about your husband.  My love and thoughts are with you.
Sincerely,
Linda

From Debbie Glaser

Dear Sue, What lovely, eloquent tributes Pat and Fran wrote about Joe. Love, Debbie


From Elena Syrett

My dear dear Sue

Saying goodbye to Joe in the Milonga dedicated to him last Thursday you were solemn, affectionate and thoughtful all of which show what a person of unique strength you are and what equally strong man Joe was... You were an incredible pair that accomplished incredible things for the tango community of NJ, NY and the world, yes the world. I am able to dance in a number of places world-wide because I learned tango at Firehouse! .Together you made the FH Milonga a special place to be every Thursday and in the process you endowed tango (this exquisitely difficult dance) with warmth, fun and above all humanity! You created a place of acceptance and conviviality which for a tango dancer are invaluable if one is to embark as well as remain successfully on the long road of learning to dance tango..

Your love for each other, care and concern were also fundamental pillars in what FH became and how and why it has lasted for so long... we will miss Joe terribly, we will constantly remember him, but one thing is certain: FH will go on, for we have you, sweet and dynamic Sue! And we will all be there every Thursday to dance with you!

Elena  

From Eva Roth

As you know, I have fond memories of both of you and it will take a while before I am able to come to terms with myself.  Joe danced  with me at every milonga that we went in Buenos Aires and often, as it was his style, he would say to me:  "look, look at me, your left foot goes here, your right foot goes there"..................................

 I will stay in touch and  bring you up to date as to what is going on with my life once I am back "home". 

Love,   Eva


From Matt Leonard
I hope we can be there (Heripsime and I) to restart with the group.  We spent last year managing her brother and her mother’s illnesses…so we have no end of sympathy.

I googled Joe when I first heard about this and have to agree…he was a remarkable man and I gather the world (at least the world around us) is much better that he’s been a part of it.
All the best.


Matt Leonard CIPP

From Jak Karako
Dear Sue

I am terribly saddened by the bad news.
My deepest condolences.

My dearest Sue,


Celebrations

Next Thursday, January 22 -Birthdays of Rose Whitehill and Estelle Stanger

Estelle Stanger

Estelle is one of the greatest ladies of Firehouse Tango.  We are always thrilled to see Estelle walk through the Firehouse door.  We're certain that Bert looks down at the scene with joy and approval.  Estelle won't dance, but we will sing to her with great enthusiasm.

Rose Whitehill

Rose is a great dancer and lovely lady who has been a Firehouse fan since our Firehouse # 4 days.  She has also been to Buenos Aires with us seven times.  We are thrilled to be able to celebrate her birthday.  As for the birthday dance, I'm sure that the Firehouse Tangueros will keep cutting in as long as we would let them. 

Last Thursday, January 15 -Belated birthday of Cris Grapa


Cris Grapa is a great tanguera, a great dancer, and a great friend. During the milonga, you'll find her at Fran's table or on the dance floor.  Cris is still digging out from her damage from Hurricane Sandy, but she comes to Firehouse as often as she can.  Carl started the celebratory tango, and then the guys all cut in, dancing to two lovely valses.

We finally got to celebrate Cris's birthday, which is actually in December.  She was far too busy then, so she got to be the first celebrant of 2015.


If heaven is anything like celebrating one's birthday at Firehouse Tango, it has a lot to recommend it. Frankly, I'd rather be at Firehouse. Thank you lovely tangueras, for a birthday memory I shall cherish. Con mucho amore,

Steve Turi

I keep saying I do not want to celebrate any more birthdays, but how many men will line up to dance with me, if not for the traditional tributes on birthdays.....oh well, you know that is not really true because our tanqueros dance with all of the ladies...

Terri Lopez



January 2015 at Firehouse Tango
January 1 - No Firehouse Tango - Happy New Year


January 8 -

We celebrate Joe Dallon

January 15 - Belated Birthday of Cris Grapa

See above
 

January 22 - Birthdays of Estelle Stanger and Rose Whitehill

Estelle Stanger

See above

Rose Whitehill

See above

January 29 -

No celebrations, just great dancing, learning, eating, and greeting old and new friends for the start of another great year.


Good Manners at Firehouse
Please do not park in the driveway of any of the houses across the street.  The houses are now all sold and occupied. There is plenty of on-street parking on Grove and Elm Streets.

Also, before you leave, please throw away your paper goods.


Preuve D'Amour

February 27 @ 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

Friday, February 27, Sharp Theater, 7:30 P.M.

Preuve d’Amour/Prueba de Amor/Proof of Love-Paris meets Buenos Aires in this culturally immersive evening of theater, dance and music featuring Argentine theatre artist and Fulbright scholar-in-residence Rafael Bianciotto, Zefiro Theatre from Paris, tango artist Sandra Antognazzi, and acclaimed musician, Oscar Feldman and his band. The evening begins with Zefiro’s American premiere performance of “Preuve D’Amour” adapted from Roberto Arlt’s, “Prueba de Amor,” a philosophical exploration of love set in Buenos Aires of the 1930s. Following intermission, audience members may join the artists on stage or enjoy the authentic “milonga” from their seats. The evening includes a short tango lesson, exhibition dances, Argentine food and wine. Come be transported!

Tickets: $30 Preuve D’Amour and milonga on stage with the artists and refreshments $25 Preuve D’Amour and watching the milonga from your seat $8 Students with valid I.D.

Buy Tickets:


Box Office: (201) 684 – 7844
 

Reader's Corner
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See tributes to Joe


Tango Tip of the week

Hi everybody, Fran here with your Tango Tip of the Week. I had a heart-to-heart talk yesterday with my students at the Argentine Consulate. Some of them have been feeling frustrated that they're not learning Tango quickly enough, and they asked me whether there's a "fast track" that will enable them to make serious progress during the new year.

Here's what I told them.

Learning Tango is a process. You start by being attracted to it from the outside; you open the door and step in; and then you spend as much time, effort, and commitment as you can in making it a more significant part of who you are.

What do I mean by that? Let me tell you how it worked (is still working) for me. I was lucky enough to begin social dancing in 1951 at age 11. My first shot out of the box was what we called "Lindy." Step, step, rock-step. My friend, Billy Hadney, taught it to me in his basement after learning it the week before from his older sister. Man, was that fun! At the time, we had no idea that this thing we were doing was just the basic step, and that there would be tons more to learn down the line. We were perfectly content to work on getting step-step-rock-step right -- by repeating it over and over, at first together, and then with (heaven help us!) girls.

Thinking back, I realize that this is the very same process, which men in Argentina used to go through in learning how to dance Tango. First, they danced with each other to get their basics feeling good; then, they perfected these fundamental skills by trying them out on women.

When I was growing up, this was how almost all of us learned how to dance. We had heard that there were dance schools you could go to, but we preferred to learn from each other. Besides, there was a huge dance culture available to us. Everybody danced; all you had to do was go to any social gathering, and people were dancing. We watched, and we learned. Nothing could be easier.

Cut to 2015. Where is the robust dance culture? Gone. Sure, if you're Latino, you can maybe still pick up a few things from your relatives. But even that dance culture is disappearing these days. Dancing is just not in the picture.

So, what options do you have, if you've got dancing on the brain? I hate to tell you this, but I'm afraid you have to bite the bullet and find yourself a teacher.

Actually, most of us in this country in 2015 realize that a teacher is the only conduit available to us, if we want to learn how to dance. In Argentina, there's still a very strong dance community that people who want to dance can tap into. You don't absolutely have to get yourself a teacher. But here? Forget about it. You just can't learn how to dance Tango by watching your friends (in my opinion, anyway). You have to have expert guidance, especially in the beginning. Or you'll find yourself completely stuck at square one until you eventually give up in frustration, or convince yourself that you know what you're doing -- because of all the time you've put in -- when, in fact, you don't.

Okay, let's say you recognize that a teacher -- the right teacher, naturally -- is crucial to your process. What's the fast track to becoming a Tango dancer as quickly as you can? Let's compare Tango to eating a delicious meal. Do you just shove it into your system all at once? Of course not. You enjoy the process of slowly ingesting every morsel of food as you take it in. You savor every bite. If you happen on a piece of grizzle, you put it aside on your plate, and quickly get back to the enjoyable part.

The process of learning Tango is -- or can be -- exactly the same. As you've found out by this time, the basics of this incredible dance are difficult to master. I work on the basics all the time, because I now know (I didn't always) that this is what makes me a good dancer, and opens the door to consistently getting better. Have you heard any of this before? Is this a great epiphany? I'm sure it's not. But what I'd like you to do this year -- right now, in fact -- is to start actually believing it.

Got the idea? Here, then, is your fast track to learning Tango:

1.     Find the right teacher.

2.     Do not under any circumstances get sucked into learning memorized figures.

3.     Work constantly on your basics.

4.     Repeat as necessary (which probably means forever).

Will you learn? I guarantee it. How soon? Give me a break.

Saturdays with Fran and Pat at Pearl Studios

Please join Fran and Pat for our Saturday Practica at Pearl Studios, 500 8th Avenue (between 35th and 36th Streets; 2-4pm, $10 per person. (Bringing a partner isn't necessary.) Fran and Pat will be on hand to answer any questions you may have about your dancing, and to help you with material you're working on. If you’d like a private lesson, call Fran directly at 212-662-7692, or email him at franchesleigh@mac.com. For the practice, all you have to do is arrive with $10 and your dance shoes in hand.

View Monica Paz' terrific tango Facebook posts - my pick from this week is below 

 

 Every day, our dear friend and teacher in Buenos Aires posts a historical tango fact of the day. These interesting and informative tidbits always include English, Spanish and Italian  information and a relevant recording. You can see all of them and listen to the recording by simply joining Monica Paz PractiMilonguero Facebook page. Below is a link to the Facebook page, where you can hear the music:

 

Calendario Milonguero

January 15th, 1916


ANDRES FALGÁS is born. Singer. He had a noble and soft voice. He passed through various groups as a soloist or as a vocalist for orchestra. He performed in various capitals of Latin America. Just ten recordings were sufficient for him to leave a significant mark. In the milongas sometime his worthy passage in the orchestra is remembered.
♫ DEJAME AMARTE AUNQUE SEA UN DÍA. Rodolfo Biagi y Andrés Falgas (1939)


Here is the Facebook link to see Monica's tango calendar:

 https://www.facebook.com/MPTango

And the following one for her latest interview (She regularly posts interviews that she does with surviving old milongueros) : 

 

MP Tango Interview

MPTango Presents Eduardo "El Nene" Masci at PractiMilonguero

Click on cc underneath the screen for English subtitles.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBECqsZMnl0&feature=youtu.be 


Los Pitucos Milonga This Saturday, January 17
Next Milonga - Saturday, January 17th, 2015
By popular demand, returning to teach again:
Special guest teachers and performers - Carolina Jaurena & Andres Bravo

Andres & Carolina are one of the best known Tango performing couples and Instructors in the New York City area.
Expect a great Tango performance...
More information about them at http://www.andresycarolina.com/

Lesson at 7:00pm, Social dancing from 8:00pm

Couples, singles and beginners welcome!
Admission $15, including home cooked "delight"
         Location: VFW (Veterans of Foreign Wars)
                                     725 Franklin Avenue (corner of Pulis Avenue)
For directions click here                 




Our cancellation policy - We STILL rarely cancel



We rarely cancel!

We want to remind everyone that if the weather looks really bad, we will leave messages on our web site www.firehousetango.com and phone 201-825-1570. You can also reach us on our cell phone 201-826-6602 (Sue) and 201-913-8504 (Joe). Feel free to leave a message on any of these lines. We cancel only when absolutely necessary (only about  seven or eight times in all these years - including, unfortunately, the first scheduled milonga of 2014), but please check whenever you're not sure. If there isn't any message, we're on.

During Hurricane Sandy, when we had only cell phone service, I was able to leave a message on my cell, so I guess that the best number to call is 201-826-6602.



 

A final thank you

The following folks helped set up, break down and clean up before and after the milonga. Without them, there would be no Firehouse Tango.


I forgot two important helpers last week.  Please forgive me, Steve Turi (with a capital S and a capital T) and Joseph Leung.


  • Debbie Glaser
  • Sydney St. James
  • Elena Titova
  • Elena Syrett
  • steve turi
  • Steve M

 

And of course, without Terri Lopez and steve turi we would have to close up shop.



    A reminder that Firehouse Tango does not supply wine - Your fellow tangueros bring it. Therefore, if you drink it, please make sure to bring a bottle every so often.

    The folks below brought food and wine this week  - See above
    • Bonny - Fig olive Spread
    • Jack - Cheese

    And these people brought wine
    • Adrienne Burton
    • Irene Andrews
    • George Ngo
    • Dan & Georgina
    • Camille
    • Bob Brillo
    • Horatio Piccioni
    • Francis & Marie
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