Walter and Gay Monteblanco Anniversary next Week, October 5th, at Firehouse Tango

Published: Fri, 09/29/17

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September 28, 2017 Newsletter
Anniversary of Walter and Gay Monteblanco next Thursday, October 5th
Can it be eight years since we rejoiced at the marriage of our very good friends Walter and Gay?  We will celebrate their anniversary with great joy next week on October 5th.  Gay and Walter will start the anniversary dance, and then the tangueros will cut in with Gay and the tangueras (and some tangueros as well, I suspect) with Walter.  I can't wait, and I shall try my absolute best to be the first one after Gay to cut in for my dance with Walter. 

Walter has been a close friend and supporter since the very beginning at Paramus Firehouse # 4, and Gay came soon after.  When they aren't traveling, they come to Firehouse often.  
October at Firehouse Tango
October 5 Anniversary of Walter Monteblanco and Gay Fallows Monteblanco - See above

October 12 No birthdays, just great dancing, eating, and socializing

October 19 The intermediate lesson will be about milonga

October 26  The intermediate lesson will be about milonga
Jewish New Year Dinner Milonga a Huge Success
 


As is our tradition during Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, some of our tangueros judeos brought traditional holiday food for our Firehouse friends last Thursday, September 28th..  Our Jewish and non-Jewish friends contributed, and it was wonderful. 


Here is what we had for this ethnic feast (You will note that there are some honorary Jews among the contributors):
 

Sue Dallon           brisket, carrots, potatoes string beans 

                               Apples and honey, desserts, appetizers 

Mike Porro         Salad with bitter herbs

Judy Assisi         Drunken fruit

Marion Levine    Salt Noodle Kugel

Eva Roth                Lamb stew

Lucille Krasne        Sweet Noodle kugel - We love it every time we can get our dear friend                                 Lucille to visit us.  We cooked the kugel together in the Firehouse                                     kitchen.  

Georgina Blitzer    Kasha varnishkas (bowtie noodles and buckwheat                                                                 groats)   and honey cake

George Ngo         Chopped liver  and crackers

Francis and Marie - Apple pie and chocolate pastries
Celebrations
​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Next Thursday, October 5th, anniversary of Walter and Gay Monteblanco

See above

Last Thursday - Birthday of Ceferino

Ceferino, our dear friend from Buenos Aires, came back to New Jersey and celebrated his birthday with us.  I played Biagi selections.  Eva started the birthday dance, and all of the Firehouse tangueras followed.

Eva brought a huge and luscious chocolate birthday cake. 

Memorial Ceremony for icon of tango community
​​​​​​​​​​​​​​There will be a memorial for Alex.  Here are the details:
Alex Tourney
October 15 5PM.
Plaza Jewish Community Chapel
630 Amsterdam Ave NYC at 91st Street

Write to this email for further information.

mjf2716@sbcglobal.net

Marc
 
 
If heaven is anything like celebrating one’s birthday at Firehouse Tango, it has a lot to recommend it.  Frankly, I’d rather be at Firehouse.  Thank you lovely tangueras, for a birthday memory I shall cherish.  Con mucho amore,
                                                                Steve Turi

I keep saying I do not want to celebrate any more birthdays, but how many men will line up to dance with me, if not for the traditional tributes on birthdays.....oh  well, you know that is not really true because our tanqueros dance with all of the ladies...
                                                                Terri Lopez
Recognition of Terri Lopez - November 12, 2017
Sue:  

I hope you and many others will share this well earned recognition with Terri.

Tony Mele (Terri's son)

This coming veterans day weekend -  November 12th, 2017:

The 65th Infantry Honor Task Force Committee has nominated Ms. Terri Lopez Beauchamp for the "St. Joan of Arc" medallion award in recognition of her unwavering support, guidance, and fidelity to the mission of honoring our forgotten heroes.  

"For selfless devotion, unwavering faith, indomitable spirit and inspiration to others. Her countless deeds of quiet contributions to our mission, without a wit of expectation for reward, embody the virtues and the character of the lady-warrior. In keeping with this ancient tradition and code of chivalry,  Ms. Terri Lopez-Beauchamp is presented with the "St. Joan of Arc Award" reflecting great credit upon herself, her community, and the 65th Infantry Honor Task Force."

Background:

 ST. JOAN OF ARC MEDAL will be a vintage mint medallion. Each one are unique in style.  It is presented as the symbolic embodiment of the lady warrior who led the entire French Army through the power of consuming inspiration and pure divine faith against unbeatable resistance.  

It is a noble token stemming back from ancient Spartan women warrior tradition into medieval times from the Knights to the ladies of the realm who offered generosity through philanthropy, inspired an indomitable will to accomplish the mission, and gentle encouragement over every obstacle and challenge. 

It is a symbol of undying loyalty and unwavering faith that even commands angelic forces against all enemies in times of righteous battle.   


Cortinas on Demand
 
In keeping with our New Year's feast, this week's cortinas were Jewish themed.  Next week, I will play cortinas by The Grateful Dead (thanks to Daniel and Georgina for the suggestion and the CD's). I'm waiting for more suggestions for cortinas.  Let me know if you have some favorite non tango music, and I will try to play it.
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A cortina (curtain) is a short piece (20–60 seconds) of non-dance music that is played between tandas at a milonga (tango dance event). The cortina lets the dancers know that the tanda has ended. The partners can then without insult thank each other and return to their own tables, to find a new dance partner at the next tanda. Cortinas are used at many of the milongas in Argentina and Uruguay but are increasingly common elsewhere- Wikipedia


Let us know if you are celebrating an occasion and would like to request special music for that night’s cortinas.  We will try very hard to accommodate you.  ​
 
Reader's Corner
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Tango Tip of the week

Hi everyone, Fran here with your Tango Tip of the Week. Last week, we introduced the idea that there are certain problems in dancing social Tango, which are specific to one of the two partners, but not necessarily the other. In the case of followers, a typical problem of this type is anticipation.


Anticipation can be defined as initiating, or attempting to initiate, a movement, which hasn’t been led. Most followers experience this difficulty in their dancing from time to time. Usually, it goes like this: A follower experiences the overwhelming intuition/expectation that her leader is about to invite a specific movement in the dance. It might be a traveling step, a weight change in place, a pivot — it could be anything at all. The situation often involves something, which flows logically out of what has come immediately before. If the follower is a relative beginner — or even if she’s a seasoned dancer, but anxious or distracted — she may succumb to anticipating a movement, which the leader had no intention of inviting. This might involve a momentary extension (and then apologetic retraction) of her leg. It might even involve a complete, un-led step.


Let’s assume for the moment that the leader is not in some unconscious (or thoughtless) way provoking the follower’s anticipated movement. The way for her to overcome the problem of anticipation in her dance begins with becoming fully aware of the complimentary roles played in social dance lead/follow:


The leader knows in advance what’s coming next; the follower literally has no idea what’s about to happen.


One might conclude that this puts the follower at a distinct disadvantage in the social Tango relationship. Yes, I think this would certainly be true, if the leader has no clue about his role in creating the conditions of movement from moment to moment. However, for now at least, we’re making the assumption that he does indeed know how to lead, and has complete respect for his follower’s skill in responding appropriately.


If we take the above as a given, I believe that there are several complimentary qualities/skills, which the follower needs to develop in order to minimize any inclination to move on her own.


Confidence

The first of these elements is confidence. By building a strong sense of confidence within herself over time that she does indeed possess the necessary proficiency to dance Tango, she opens the door to minimizing anxiety and actually being able to consistently execute at a high level.


In my opinion, developing such confidence comes directly from study, practice, plus the right kind of encouragement.


Balance at rest — stasis

The next element of importance involves the follower’s ability to recognize the crucial moment of balanced, unimpeded “stasis” in her dance. “Am I standing in a comfortable place (almost certainly on one foot) with the potential to easily execute any possible single movement, which the leader might choose to invite?”


I think of this as “the moment of truth” in social Tango —the moment in which the follower is ready for whatever may be invited in the next instant, because she is not being pressured by her leader to do anything at all.


Concentration

With these qualities/skills at her disposal, the follower is now in an ideal position to respond appropriately to a legitimate invitation — while ignoring, or at least fighting hard against, any sudden urges she might have to move on her own. Because her confidence is high, and her starting point is a powerful sense of balance at rest, she is now fully prepared to apply the indispensable element of concentration to the lead/follow situation.


Social Tango — you must realize this by now — is a very intense lead/follow experience. There is simply no way to half-consciously wander through the motions. As a follower, you cannot hang on passively to your partner, and expect to be carried along as if in a dream. You might wish for such a thing to occur in a romanticized misinterpretation of the actual Tango relationship, but things just don’t work that way.


In theory, the experienced, highly skilled leader (your partner) is working very, very hard to provide you with everything you need during any given moment to respond to his invitations, to achieve balance, and to set up the appropriate conditions for his next invitation. Should you be blessed with having such a leader as your partner, it now becomes your job to fully commit to the intense, ongoing concentration necessary to complete the conditions of this complimentary relationship moment by moment.


If you can do this, I’m certain that anticipating movement will soon become a thing of the past in your dancing.


Next week, we’ll turn to some of the difficulties leaders encounter on a regular basis.

Saturdays with Fran and Pat at Dardo Galletto Studios

Please join us for our Saturday Practica at Dardo Galletto Studios, 151 West 46th Street (between 6th and 7th Avenues), 11th floor; 2-4pm, $10 per person. (Bringing a partner isn't necessary.) Pat and I will both be on hand to answer any questions you may have about your dancing, and to help you with material you're working on. Plus you get a new “must-have” tango move each week! If you’d like a private lesson, you can visit our website at www.franchesleigh.com, call Fran directly at 212-662-7692, or email him at franchesleigh@mac.com Join us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/franchesleighllc

Welcome to the Golden Age of American Social Dance

Announcing a New Class in American Social Dance

with Fran Chesleigh and Pat Altman


Pat and I invite you to our all new initiative, the American Social Dance Project,
an ongoing series of weekly classes, beginning with

CLASS ONE

Concentrating on authentic
American Foxtrot, Triple Swing and Salsa

 

Monday, October 2, 2017

8:00 p.m

Studios 353

353 West 48th Street

(between 8th and 9th Avenues)

2nd floor, Studio 3


In America, we have a very long and rich social dance tradition, which includes progressive dances like Foxtrot and Waltz as well as various forms of Swing and Hustle, and a full range of “Latin” styles like Salsa, Cha Cha Cha, Merengue, Rumba and Samba. Over the past several decades, our unique American social dance tradition has been all but completely replaced by a hybrid of International competitive dance, often called “American Standard.”


We think that now is the time to rediscover the world of authentic American social dance!


Ø Class One of our American Social Dance Project concentrates on authentic
American Foxtrot, Triple Swing, and Salsa.

Ø Now, you have the opportunity to learn these dances the way they’re supposed
to be done on the social dance floor!

Ø In the near future, we’ll be offering a variety of additional classes in other
dances in the authentic American tradition.


Don’t miss it!

Register online: $25 per person at www.franchesleigh.com
Checks and cash accepted at the door.
All levels welcome. No refunds. No exchanges.

Upcoming September Events

                                                                           
Simply Social Dancing 

Latin Night at La Havana 59

Tuesday, September 26th  
7:00 to 10:00 pm

Mostly Salsa and Argentine Tango... some Bachata, Merengue, Rumba, & Cha Cha.
A Latin evening for those who enjoy Latin music, food, and dancing!
An Argentine Tango lesson to start (for all level dancers).

$20.00 cover includes 2 house drinks or 1 drink & 1 Latin Night appetizer

For more information call Lisa 201 694 7087

Salsa & Tango classes on Tuesday night in Hackensack.


Events September and October




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Simply Social Dancing Events September and October_____________
                               
Latin Night at La Havana 59
110 Moonachie Ave, Moonachie NJ  
Tuesday, September 26th & October 24th
7:00 to 10:00 pm
Mostly Salsa and Argentine Tango... some Bachata, Merengue, Rumba, & Cha Cha.
A Latin evening for those who enjoy Latin music, food, and dancing!
An Argentine Tango lesson to start (for all level dancers).
$20.00 cover includes 2 house drinks or 1 drink & 1 Latin Night appetizer
For reservations and directions:
http://www.lahavana59.com
201 964 9515

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Biagio's Restaurant for Dinner & Dance
299 Paramus Rd,  Paramus  NJ
Sunday, October 15th
6:00 to 9:00 pm

A mix of music for all types of partner dancing.
This is a good place to invite new dancers and friends.
A beginner dance lesson to start off the night.
$35.00 for dinner and dancing (includes tip) / Cash bar
For this event, reservations are very important. 
It allows our host to prepare the room and enough food!
For reservations and directions:
http://www.biagios.com
201 652 0201
             
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All Classes will be held at the CMDE Studio

CMDE Studio in Hackensack.
84 Euclid Ave, Hackensack  NJ    07601
This site will provide directions to the studio:
http://www.cmde.org/directions.html
  
Kindly

Lisa Skates
Simply Social Dancing
201 694 7087


 




Our cancelation policy - We STILL rarely cancel




Even though we had to cancel once last year because of a blizzard, we still rarely cancel!

We want to remind everyone that if the weather looks really bad, we will leave messages on our web site www.firehousetango.com and my cell phone 201-826-6602. Feel free to leave a message.


We cancel only when absolutely necessary (only about eight or nine times in all these years - including, unfortunately, the Thursday that I was in Florida, but please check whenever you're not sure. If there isn't any message, we're on.

During Hurricane Sandy, when we had only cell phone service, I was able to leave a message on my cell, so I guess that the best number to call is 201-826-6602.




A final thank you

The following folks helped set up, break down and clean up before and after the milonga. Without them, there would be no Firehouse Tango.


  • Steve Turi
  • Lynn Gross
  • Tsipoyra Sartan


And of course, without Terri Lopez and Steve Turi  we would have to close up shop.

 

 
    A reminder that Firehouse Tango does not supply wine - Your fellow tangueros bring it. Therefore, if you drink it, please make sure to bring a bottle every so often.

    The folks below brought food and wine this week  -
    • George Ngo - Chopped Chicken Liver
    • Eva Roth - Cake & Pasti Echio
    • Ingrid Jacob - Zucchini Bread
    • Judy Assisi - Drunken Fruit
    • Francis & Marie - Rainbow Cookies & Apple Pie

    And these people brought wine 
               
    • Henry Kim
    • Mary Pagano
    • Fred Meyer
    • David Levy
    • Bill Auer
    • George Ngo
    • Bill Krukovsky
    • Bob Brillo
    • Francis & Marie

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