Firehouse Tango Celebrates Rose Whitehill's Birthday next Thursday, January 24

Published: Fri, 01/18/13

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More about Estelle's birthday celebration last week

After celebrating her birthday last week, we received this letter from our dear Estelle: 


Sue,

I can't thank you enough for last night. I am still reeling. Your love permeates through the entire Firehouse and it is such a magical loving happy place. The way you and Norma organized everything was absolutely Over the Top. The birthday dance,the gifts, the card, the flowers, the Napoleon Cake and the gift for Sharon made it an absolutely perfect birthday celebration. I felt like "Queen for a Day" (a very old TV show you may or may not remember.) I know Bert and Fernando were there with us.
I was overwhelmed when I opened the Taxi Gift as it was more than generous.
I am totally "Faklempt"
Have a great weekend in Boston! I love you and Joe soooo much. Estelle

We love you,

Estelle.

Here's another note from Estelle to Eva:

Hello Dearest Eva,

 I can't Thank You enough for the Eva Perfume. I has a lovely aroma and I will definitely think of you every time I use it. Also Thank You for your generous contribution to my Taxi fund. Also Thank You for the delicious dish you cooked for everyone.
You are a Beautiful, Generous,Witty,Inspiring and Talented Lady and I love you a lot.
I wish you a wonderful trip back to B.A. and a wonderful 2013.

Love, Estelle

And a Facebook post from Estelle's daughter, Elana:

Elana Stanger Thank you all so much for being so good to my mother, Estelle! You all mean so much to her. It looks like it was a beautiful celebration. The Firehouse is such a special place, with such amazing people! The photos are beautiful. I am so glad I am able to see the smile you all put on my mom's radiant face...

And something I forgot last week:

I forgot to mention that Steve Turi started an impromptu birthday waltz with Estelle last week, and others continued.  Estelle didn't protest one bit. 


Men's Shoes donated

Our friend Norman has moved to Hawaii, and Walter brought a few pair of his tango shoes;   size 10 1/2 and 11.  Pay what you like - the proceeds will be donated to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation.  You can ask Pat Altman about this wonderful organization, or you can check out http://www.bcrfcure.org/ 
Celebrations
Next Thursday, January 24 - Rose Whitehill

Rose is a great dancer and lovely lady who has been a Firehouse fan since our Firehouse # 4 days.  She has also been to Buenos Aires with us seven times.  We are thrilled to be able to celebrate her birthday.  As for the birthday dance, I'm sure that the Firehouse Tangueros will keep cutting in as long as we would let them.


If heaven is anything like celebrating one's birthday at Firehouse Tango, it has a lot to recommend it. Frankly, I'd rather be at Firehouse. Thank you lovely tangueras, for a birthday memory I shall cherish. Con mucho amore,

Steve Turi

I keep saying I do not want to celebrate any more birthdays, but how many men will line up to dance with me, if not for the traditional tributes on birthdays.....oh well, you know that is not really true because our tanqueros dance with all of the ladies...

Terri Lopez
Terri Lopez - Our Resident Author is Interviewed - Correction of Youtube link
Pick up a flyer at our front desk to order Terri Lopez' new book about coming of age in Spanish Harlem in the 40's and 50's. It's also available on Amazon. com. Here's the link:

The Dark Side of Sunshine (9781434987747): H. Terri Lopez: Books

***Note from Sue - I was the first one to order it, read it, and enjoy it. It's a great read!  Thanks to John for letting us know that this link was incorrect last week.  You can see Terri's interview by clicking on the link below.

Author's Interview

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jWSBn8c0ESQ&feature=youtu.be

Readers' Corner
We welcome readers' contributions about Argentine Tango in general and Firehouse Tango in particular. Send your thoughts to firehousetango@gmail.com

See notes from Estelle Stanger




Tango Tip of the week
Leader's Problem #5:

 Sometimes I don't know whether he wants me to cross or not, and as I'm trying to get my left leg across, I often don't have enough room.

 

Traditionally, the cross in indicated in the following way. For the sake of this discussion, we'll assume that this sequence is in the parallel system:

 

1.     The leader moves his right leg outside and forward on the follower's right side as the follower steps backward with her left leg. The moment he takes this step, the follower prepares herself for a cross in the next two steps.

2.     Each of the partners takes another step (leader forward left, follower backward right) with the leader remaining outside in the new travel line he has created with his previous step. This movement verifies for the follower that she is definitely being led to a cross. (If the leader wanted to change his mind at this point, for example, he could move back in front of the follower with this step, thereby negating the cross.)

3.     Assuming that the leader remains outside in the previous movement, with the next step the follower slides her left leg in front of her right, producing la cruzada, while the leader brings his legs together (right to left).

4.     Both partners may now pause before continuing.

 

In stating the problem from the follower's point of view, I really opened the door to two potential problems:

 

1.     The leader doesn't properly indicate that he, in fact, wants her to cross.

2.     The leader inadvertently prevents her from crossing.

 

First problem: In the parallel system it is quite easy to be clear in the first of the above steps that the leader is moving outside his follower. Even a raw newcomer will be able to feel at this point that her leader has taken a step to her right outside. The problem actually occurs in the next step. In attempting to continue in the new travel line with his left leg, an inexperienced leader will often unconsciously move toward his partner's centerline. (The reason for this is that outside partner movement is inherently difficult and uncomfortable, while in-line movement feels easy and desirable.)  By sending himself close enough to his previous in-line juxtaposition the leader now confuses his follower into believing that he is negating the cross. So she keeps walking backward instead of creating la cruzada.

Note to leaders: You can prevent this confusion from occurring by being very clear in your approach to the cross, particularly with the left-leg-forward step which immediately precedes la cruzada. Make absolutely certain that you don't move to the right toward your partner. This should insure that she knows you want her to cross.

Second problem: As the follower begins to slide her left leg in front of her right to produce la cruzada, the leader moves so close to her that he actually blocks her leg from completing the movement. So she ends up bumping into his leg, and finds herself awkwardly stuck between la cruzada and who knows what.

Note to leaders: In moving toward the cross, make certain you gradually create distance between yourself and your follower by opening your right arm slightly. This allows her to move away from you enough that at the moment of crossing there will be sufficient room for her to comfortably complete the crossing action.

If you have any questions about this, please feel free to talk to Pat or me at the Firehouse. Next week, Pat will discuss problems that the follower may bring upon herself in attempting to create la cruzada, and we'll learn what the follower can do about a leader who can't seem to ever give her enough room to cross.
Saturdays with Fran and Pat at Dance Manhattan
For Firehouse dancers who might enjoy a day in the Big Apple on Saturdays, Fran teaches from 10:00 a.m. until 4:00 p.m. every week. He offers a beginner class in Milonga & Argentine Waltz at 11:00 a.m. as well as an intermediate class in Tango at noon. From 2:00 p.m. until 4:00 p.m. Fran and Pat host a special beginner/intermediate practice for bringing your skills up to speed. The cost for the practice is $10 per person. (Bringing a partner isn't necessary.) Fran and Pat are always on hand to answer any questions you may have about your dancing, and to help you with figures you're working on. If you want to take Fran's classes, call Dance Manhattan at 212-807-0802 to register. For the practice, all you have to do is arrive with $10 and your dance shoes in hand.

See you every Saturday for a full day of Tango!
Firehouse Tango hot line - We rarely cancel
We want to remind everyone that if the weather looks really bad, we will leave messages on our web site www.firehousetango.com and phone 201-825-1570. You can also reach us on our cell phone 201-826-6602 (Sue) and 201-913-8504 (Joe). Feel free to leave a message on any of these lines. We cancel only when absolutely necessary (only about six seven times in all these years), but please check whenever you're not sure. If there isn't any message, we're on.

During Hurricane Sandy, when we had only cell phone service, I was able to leave a message on my cell, so I guess that the best number to call is 201-826-6602.
Lost and Found
Last week, Carl claimed his lost shoes and Terri her black sweater.   We have a pair of men's dance sneakers.  If you lost something, we probably have it. We have a few ladies' scarves. There are also various items of clothing and jewelry in the closet. Ask Tibor at the front desk.
A final thank you
The following folks helped set up, break down and clean up before and after the milonga. Without them, there would be no Firehouse Tango.

  • Terri Lopez 
  • Tony Mele
  • Tsipoyra Sartan 
  • Stephen Maisch 
  • steve turi 
  • Jesse Barton 
  • Mary Epiphan 
  • Edna Negron
  • Marta Bautis
  • Debbie Glaser
  • Maro D.
A reminder that Firehouse Tango does not supply wine - Your fellow tangueros bring it. Therefore, if you drink it, please make sure to bring a bottle every so often.

The folks below brought food and wine this week -

  • Bonny - Candy, Guacamole & Chips
And these people brought wine
  • Bill Krukovsky
  • Liz Contreras
  • Bob Brillo
  • Gary Blank
  • Terri Lopez
  • Eduardo Campos
  • Walter Monteblanco
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